My dream is that EVERY Being on the Planet is treated well. That is that they are respected and honored. Some do not even know they are bullied. Now we have this problem of bullying that has been going on for ag es – and abuse in many cultures – and now this thing of#sexualharassment that has exploded. As a therapist I know that abuse destroys lives. There are people in their 50s with their lives destroyed because of childhood bullying. The question is: how can we help collectively to bring back respect and honoring for people? I think the question is first of all helping people who are oppressed break free and choose ONLY situations where they are honored. It requires an immense amount of courage from them, as abuse causes a lot of anger and oftentimes they need to release the need for justice, as there will not be any. They need to HEAL – and the healing can be immense, and RELEASE the anger. The oppressor absolutely NEEDS to heal too. And the first thing they need to do is recognize what they did and why. “It is only when we have the courage to face things exactly as they are, without any sort of self-deception or illusion, that a light will develop out of events, by which the path to success may be recognized. This recognition must be followed by resolute and persevering action.” – I CHING, The Book of Changes Being in denial has never solved anything. We need to stop justifying them, but I think we also need to find a way to soften the finger pointing, as it would only cause things to stick. In Consciousness there is awareness but no judgment. We need to be aware of how everything is and love ourselves enough to choose differently. We cannot change anybody. They need to take responsibility for their actions and have the courage to change themselves. We need to let them go. And then we need to shift the Consciousness to a consciousness of respect.
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