I was talking today with a friend about the next step in global consciousness and we concluded it will be about love. Let me explain.

Years ago we would have never dreamed possible all the current care and concern about the environment, and all the changes each one of us is making daily to take care of our beautiful planet.

Then we have wonderful global projects to assist people in need. It is a wonderful sign of how we are becoming more and more aware of the human family.

So, what will be the next step in our global consciousness?

As we learn more and more about the power of our thoughts, about how our world is created by our consciousness and emotions, and how our wellbeing, happiness and abundance is linked to our consciousness, we will change the way we relate to each other.

In fact, the more loving we are, the healthier we are going to be, the more happiness we are going to have, the more successful we are going to be, the more money we are going to have, the more loving relationships we are going to have.

It is really all about love, love for the people close to us, for the people around us, for ourselves, for people in general, for the world. It will be about caring and cherishing people deeply, yourself included.

I am sure you know there are many NLP techniques which help with creating rapport with people, which help with influencing people, but none of them is as strong as love is.

The strongest human want is to be loved, I am sure you will agree with that. Even the most difficult person, if you accept them, if you send them love, they will change with you.

In fact, you can use this techniques in all your relationships; take a person you do not get along with, and let go of disapproving of them, and decide to accept them, and send them love. They will change with you, as you will orient yourself to the best in that person.

And if for example you have a business or you work in sales, if you truly care for your customers, you will make more sales.

There is somehow a trend in personal development according to which if a relationship does not work, you simply and easily find another one. I heard someone once saying something like: ‘If a relationship does not work, you split up, and form another family.’ I was horrified to hear that, as if people are handkerchiefs. Following this trend will only bring pain and suffering. And this is valid for relationships, it is valid for your friends, it is valid for all people in general.

People are extremely precious, you included, and the more you care for them, the happier and successful you are going to be.

And you will see that as you change the way you respond to external circumstances and people by sending them love and approval, you will be less stressed and more at peace.

Also something to be said about the care for ourselves, because if we do not take care of ourselves, we cannot take care of others, because we empty ourselves out. And this means approving of yourself, always, even if you do things not up to your standards, but as you approve of yourself, you see these behaviours simply as an opportunity for growth.

That’s it for this week, and until next time, may you be blessed with all things good,

Piercarla Garusi
www.pgcoaching.co.uk