Let us suppose there is something you are not happy with in your life, and let us consider these two courses of actions, which you might be familiar with:

1. Fairy

We wait for things to change, we hope they will change, that somehow a fairy will make everything all right and we can live happily every after.

We know deep down that things will not change in this way, but we feel safe in our comfort zone, and we rather put our head in the sand and just wait for the fairy than doing something about it.

Does this method work? No!

This method will just cause you to become more unhappy, stressed, frustrated or depressed.

2. Massive actions

There are some teachings in personal development according to which we need to take constantly massive actions if we are to change our life and create the life we want.

This method is good but only at the beginning: if we are stuck, and we need to get the momentum going, it is very helpful; afterwards it becomes damaging and self-destructive.

We might begin thinking if we have not achieved our goals it is our fault, that we haven’t taken enough actions, and we might start beating ourselves up.

And the more you struggle, the more you work hard, the more you push to achieve your goals, the less you achieve them.

Familiar?

This method is in a way aligned with the saying: ‘No pain, no gain’, which is contrary to your true identity, to who you truly are: you are a spiritual being, and thus a co-creator with the Universe.

3. And so we have a third course of action, which involves the following points:

- take full responsibility for your life: you are the only responsible for your emotional state, your happiness, your success, your life

- decide how you want your life to be: making a decision is extremely powerful, you establish your goals and by letting go of everything that is contrary to them, you create them.

As we mentioned previously, the most powerful method to let go is the Release Technique, you can find it here: http://www.pgcoaching.co.uk/20.html.- take actions in accordance to the Universe; and the more you free yourself from all the subconscious programming that is contrary to your goals, the easier it becomes to achieve them.And yes, you will have a lot of actions to take, the majority is releasing, and you will take all the obvious and inspired actions too, and the more you grow spiritually, the more you will be able to manifest with your mind.

That’s it for this week, and until next time, may you be blessed with all things good,

Piercarla Garusi
www.pgcoaching.co.uk